Be a broken record

Dec. 24, 2018

Introduction

I learn some communication rules from the article called "42 rules to lead by from the man who defined Google's product strategy". There are six communication rules. I like to apply those six rule to apply my project management related to my sponsor application from 2016 to 2018.

6 communication rules

Be a broken record
Share everything. Hide nothing.
Every word matters
Tell stories
Stop talking, already.
But, if you know the answer...

Apply rules one by one

I deleted all my sister's comment in my private wechat group. Only keep the bill statements.

Share everything. Hide nothing

I showed all transaction I did through Scotia west union transfer. Here is the blog.

No one listened. My sister told me that you are lucky. One of physics professor a Chinese committed suicide recently.

My sister told me that I am single so I do not learn how to be a responsible person. She is a college teacher and also need to take care her daughter.

She did not pay anything since she argued that she lived with my late mom over 8 years together.

I could not handle the bill over $4000 Canadian dollars, no one wants to pay any of the bill. It is the end of year. I paid all the bill statements first.

I showed them opportunity cost I lost, I spent so many vacation in China, over $4,000 Canadian dollars vacation to entertain their spring festival holidays twice. I did not purchase any real estate in Canada and also in the city of Yichun when I worked full time last eight years, I was pushed to pay so many bills nonsense, whereas they all enjoy luxury cars, houses and wealth. I was under influence of love and care and those brainwash family relationship.

I told her that I was pushed to pay so many bills, over ten thousands US dollars, and then over ten thousand Canadian dollars to support my late mom over last 18 years.



Be a broken record
There is no such thing as too much communication.

If I continue to pay all those bills after my mom passed away since 2017 November, I will no longer need any relative, I will cut off all connections with relatives.

It is simple and I need to get my bill paid at the end of year.

"You are a christian. You should go to heaven if you pay the bill."
"You should not care about money. Just spend it. It is you job to pay bill for next generation."

I learn to give warnings again and again. Be persistent.

She found the solution and part of my bill was paid in 2 minutes using China Alibaba solution. I was nobody and suddenly some one paid the bill since I pushed the envelope.

One of sisters told me that she likes to pay the bill, there are some money leftover from my late mom.
I paid her over ten thousands US dollars and Canadian dollars to support my late mom with retirement stable income, a home fully paid by me.